15+ Signs A Man Is Into You

If a man often sends you links to look at or things on social media that he thinks you might like, it's a good sign that he likes you. At the very least, it means he has been thinking about you, and regularly comes across things that have reminded him of you. 

Have you ever been on a date with someone who seems to talk almost endlessly about their self, but fails to ask you even the most surface level of questions? Clearly that is not a good sign - a man with a genuine interest in you will want to learn more about your past, your career, your views, and your hobbies. 

If a man only seems interested in having rather superficial conversations with you, it could be that he isn't really interested in building a meaningful conversation. On the other hand, initiating and enjoying deep discussions shows that he wants to understand you better and build a more profound bond. 

This may sound like a rather obvious one, but it is one of the biggest signs that a man is genuinely interested in you. In contrast, if a man is always saying he is too busy to meet up or text regularly, there is a good chance that he just isn't that interested in taking things further. 

If you find yourself always being the one to initiate conversations via text, it can be a warning sign. While some people are just not great at texting, it doesn't take a lot of time or effort to send a quick message. A man who genuinely likes you will regularly make the effort to text you first. 

If a man often remembers small details you've previously mentioned, for example a favorite food or a book or movie you've always loved, it is usually a very good sign. It shows that he is fully listening when you talk and likes you enough to make a mental note of the little things that matter to you. 

If a man constantly goes out of his way to make you laugh and to put a smile on your face, it's a good sign that he really likes you. It demonstrates that he cares about your happiness and also wants to impress you, while strengthening your bond as partners. 

We're not talking about lavish and expensive gifts like diamonds here, but rather small gestures that show he has thought of you in some way. It could be bringing you a hot chocolate on a cold day, or picking up a book that you've said you wanted to try. 

This should be the case for all dates, but unfortunately things like social media have made many of us slaves to our cell phones nowadays. So, if a man makes a clear effort to give you his undivided attention - keeping his phone out of reach and not being distracted by other people - it is certainly a good sign. 

Whether it relates to your appearance, your achievements, or your personality, if a man is giving you compliments it shows that he appreciates you in a meaningful way. When a man takes the time to praise you, he’s paying attention to both the little and big things about you and wants to make you feel good about yourself. 

Of course, this doesn't mean planning your wedding on the very first date. But if a man shows a genuine interest in discussing long term plans with you, it is a good sign that he sees you in his future and believes your goals and values are in alignment. 

A simple text in the morning or evening is a good indication that a man is thinking of you first. It also shows that he wants you to be reminded of him and is making an effort to stay connected, and ultimately wants to include you in his daily routine. 

Whether it is a simple task like helping to fix your printer or being there for you in a time of urgent need, a man who is truly into you will always be eager to assist you whenever he can, as your happiness and comfort are among his top priorities. 

This probably goes without saying, but if a man wants you to meet his friends, he is probably thinking fairly long term about a relationship with you. It is not only a chance for him to get his friends' opinions, but also to see how well you fit in with his social circle. 

We all have dreams and aspirations we would like to achieve, regardless of our age and current situation. If a man opens up to you about his goals, it shows that he wants to build a more in-depth connection with you and may even want you to be a part of his aspirations. 

A man who is attracted to you and considers you girlfriend material will obviously want to impress you in some way. This could be by talking about his career or his sporting achievements, perhaps. As long as he doesn't take this too far and veer into arrogance, you should take it as a good sign. 

A man who takes a genuine interest in your passions and hobbies is likely to be into you. If he decides to try them himself, perhaps watching a TV show you love or suggesting you partake in your hobby together some time, it's an even bigger green flag. 

Whether it is positioning himself next to you in a group setting or reaching out to you via text or call, a man who is into you will find little reasons to be close to you. This signifies that he enjoys being around you and talking to you, even if it is just for a quick check in. 

If a man is making prolonged eye contact with you, it suggests that he is deeply interested and engaged in you. Intense eye contact can be very sensual and often indicates a strong connection when in a romantic context, while also suggesting that he is comfortable around you. 

Of course, we're not referring to possessiveness or extreme jealousy, but rather subtle signs that he feels a little bit protective or envious when it comes to other potential suitors. This shows that he values you and wants your attention, and, provided he expresses these feelings in a lighthearted and non-controlling way, it can be a good sign. 

People often give too much weight to social media these days, but still, it is a good sign if a man regularly interacts with you in this way. If shows that he is probably interested in maintaining a connection beyond face-to-face meetings and doesn't care about others noticing your interactions. 

If a man wants to open up to you and chooses to be vulnerable, it shows that he is trying to connect with you on a deeper level and must feel comfortable around you in order to do so. When a man shares his personal thoughts, feelings, or insecurities, it’s a strong indication that he trusts you and values the emotional bond you're building. 

If a guy shows an interest in getting to know your friends and family, or perhaps just asking about them during the early stages of dating, it shows that he is interested in really learning more about you and integrating with the people who are most important to you. 

Chances are, if a man sees a real possibility of a future with you, he will want to open up and be honest with you, showing his true self to see how you react. This might include talking about his background, his previous relationships, and behaviors he is perhaps not proud of. 

A guy who is rather passive when it comes to dating and lets you plan all of the dates may not be completely invested in the blossoming relationship. In contrast, if he is taking the time to research places for you to go together, it shows that he is thinking of you and wants to enjoy new locations and experiences with you. 

We all have unique quirks and traits that make us who we are, as well as things we consider flaws that we may be self-conscious about. A man who appreciates these things that others (or you) may perhaps find unappealing or annoying is probably into you. 

While some of us are more touchy-feely than others, most of us can probably agree that we like to be tactile with people we are romantically interested in, whether it is a gentle touch on the arm or a playful nudge. So, if a man does this - in a respectful manner, of course - it is a good indication that he likes you. 

When a man is really into a woman, he often lets his guard down and becomes sweet and affectionate rather than keeping up the macho facade. This can manifest in a number of ways, but can include coming up with a playful nickname for you or using cute emojis when he texts. 

If a man has clearly made an effort for your dates, for example dressing nicely and picking a venue that he thinks you will like, it shows that he has put a lot of thought into your meeting and wants to make it as positive as possible. This is a huge green flag.

He talks about things he would like to do together in the future and initiates discussions about plans to gauge your reaction. These are good indications that he is into you, as it means he is thinking long term and wants to include you in his life as much as possible. 

This doesn't mean stepping over the limit and making intrusive or disrespectful comments, but rather is a lighthearted way of being flirty and a bit suggestive. This type of interaction shows that there is chemistry and allows both parties to express their romantic and/or sexual interest. 

He looks after you and wants to ensure your well-being at all times, whether it is sheltering you from the rain or walking on the sidewalk closest to the street. Gestures like this show that he appreciates you and wants you to be safe and comfortable. 

If you know a bit about body language, you might already be aware of this one. If someone is mirroring your gestures, for example touching their face when you do or pointing their body in a certain direction, it is a positive sign that they are trying hard to establish a connection with you. 

If a man asks for you for your opinion on everything from his clothing choices to a work dilemma, it shows that he values what you think. The fact that he wants your advice and respects your perspective could suggest that he sees you as an important part of his life. 

Picture the scene: You are meeting a guy you've been seeing for a date, and as you turn a corner you spot him, and you see his face instantly light up. These immediate reactions are hard to fake, so if he seems genuinely delighted to see you, it's probably safe to assume he is into you. 

A man who is into you is likely to laugh at all your jokes, even if they are not particularly funny. This is because he wants to make you feel comfortable and signal that he enjoys your company, and is often a subconscious attempt to build mutual affection. 

It probably goes without saying that it is not wise to go to a man's home on a first date, but if a man you've been dating for a while wants to spend time with you at his place, it could be that he is keen to invite you deeper into his world and have you in his personal space. 

Introducing you to his social circle is one thing, but if a man is keen for you to meet his family, whether it is his parents, his siblings, or even his children, it suggests that he is very serious about the relationship and wants you to integrate into the most important part of his life. 

It's probably a given that if a man seems to be keeping you a secret after you've been seeing each other for a while, he may not be fully invested in a future with you. In contrast, if he has obviously mentioned you to his friends, family, and/or colleagues, it shows that he values you. 

If a man seems a bit nervous around you in the early stages of dating, it could be because he finds you attractive and interesting and is therefore feeling a bit of pressure to impress and connect with you. It’s basically a sign that he values your opinion and cares about how you perceive him.